Al-Anon Family Groups are widely considered highly effective for individuals dealing with the impact of someone else’s drinking, with survey data indicating that 88% to 93% of members report improvements in their mental health and emotional state. The program, which is free and widely available, helps members focus on their own recovery and serenity, rather than trying to control the drinker.
Here are key comments and findings regarding the effectiveness of Al-Anon:
Positive Outcomes and Benefits
Mental Health Improvement: In a 2018 survey, 88% of members reported improved mental health, with 67% reporting significant improvement. A 2025 report found that 83% of members reported mental health improvements within the first year, rising to 91% for those with four or more years of involvement.
Detachment and Coping Skills: Members frequently highlight “detachment with love” as a crucial skill, helping them to stop obsessing over the drinker’s behavior and reduce their own stress, anger, and anxiety.
Reduced Verbal/Physical Abuse: Regular attendance is linked to a reduction in experiencing verbal or physical abuse from the drinker.
Empowerment: Many report that Al-Anon helps them find a sense of purpose, self-worth, and peace of mind regardless of whether the alcoholic is still drinking.
“Double Winners”: Some members who are also in AA (referred to as “double winners”) report that while AA provided tools for sobriety, Al-Anon was necessary for healing emotional damage.
Factors in Effectiveness
Consistency is Key: The saying “Keep Coming Back” is central; sustained participation over at least six months leads to better outcomes in handling problems and improving well-being.
Working the Program: Effectiveness is often tied to actively working the Twelve Steps, finding a sponsor, and reading literature, rather than just passively attending meetings.
Complementary to Therapy: Al-Anon is not a replacement for professional therapy but works well alongside it, with many members finding it helps with codependency issues.